{"id":11871,"date":"2025-12-16T12:44:23","date_gmt":"2025-12-16T11:44:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/workingremotely.nl\/how-emigrating-to-and-from-togo-completely-changed-my-life-and-work\/"},"modified":"2025-12-16T13:08:36","modified_gmt":"2025-12-16T12:08:36","slug":"how-emigrating-to-and-from-togo-completely-changed-my-life-and-work","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/workingremotely.nl\/en\/how-emigrating-to-and-from-togo-completely-changed-my-life-and-work\/","title":{"rendered":"How emigrating to and from Togo completely changed my life and work"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I&#8217;m Mignon, mother of Emma (8) and Semme (5), partner of Chris and entrepreneur, although I didn&#8217;t know that about myself before we moved abroad. My husband Chris was born in Togo, I in the Netherlands. Two different continents, two roots, two frames of reference. Our lives played out somewhere in the middle. Until we decided to literally shift that middle.    <\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>Two origins, one family and one giant leap toward the unknown<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In 2022, we moved to Togo with the idea of staying for one year. A sabbatical, we thought. A year to give our children their second origin, to get to know Chris&#8217; roots better, and to get away from the Dutch rhythm for a while. But that year turned into three years. And those three years changed everything: who I am, how I work and how I look at the world.    <\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>Why we ventured to Africa<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When I met Chris during our studies, I hardly knew where Togo was. I was someone who never went to live in rooms because I found it too exciting. But parenthood changes a lot. And when Emma started asking questions about her origins and skin color, I felt very strongly, &#8220;We need to get to know your second home as a family.&#8221;   <\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-11863\" src=\"https:\/\/workingremotely.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/1-300x233.jpg\" alt=\"Mignon's family in living room\" width=\"400\" height=\"311\" srcset=\"https:\/\/workingremotely.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/1-300x233.jpg 300w, https:\/\/workingremotely.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/1-768x597.jpg 768w, https:\/\/workingremotely.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/1.jpg 900w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/> <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-11865\" src=\"https:\/\/workingremotely.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/3-300x233.jpg\" alt=\"Mignon in Africa with her purse\" width=\"400\" height=\"311\" srcset=\"https:\/\/workingremotely.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/3-300x233.jpg 300w, https:\/\/workingremotely.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/3-768x597.jpg 768w, https:\/\/workingremotely.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/3.jpg 900w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><b>Three years of Togo: where our entrepreneurial journey began<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I was trained as a skin therapist and enjoyed doing this work for over 14 years. When our trip lasted longer than a year, I lost my job in the Netherlands. I was able to continue my work online for a while, but eventually I had to let go of that position permanently. Then I was hired as a freelancer by the professional association for skin therapists (NVH) for various projects.   <\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Where one door closes, a new one opens &#8211; that&#8217;s how it felt to me.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We left with no entrepreneurial plans. But Togo gave us exactly what we never had in the Netherlands: space and time for creative rest. And from that came the following:  <\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3>Wood &amp; Cricket &#8211; my Togolese bag brand<\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It started small: a bag, a fabric, an idea. But in Togo, ideas become big if you give them attention. What started as a &#8216;try out&#8217; grew into my own bag brand, a local production line, a team of makers I&#8217;m very proud of, a webshop and stores in the Netherlands and Togo that sell my bags.  <\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-11864\" src=\"https:\/\/workingremotely.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/2-300x233.jpg\" alt=\"Mignon with its own bag brand\" width=\"600\" height=\"467\" srcset=\"https:\/\/workingremotely.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/2-300x233.jpg 300w, https:\/\/workingremotely.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/2-768x597.jpg 768w, https:\/\/workingremotely.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/2.jpg 900w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3>Dutchies Emigrating: born out of my own quest<\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Because emigrating is a rollercoaster, I started looking for other people&#8217;s stories. And since I didn&#8217;t find that anywhere, I started sharing it myself. Thus was born Dutchies Emigrating. Not as a project, but as a need. What started as a few posts grew into a community of 30,000 followers, webinars, blogs, podcasts, a beautiful website, whatsapp groups and most of all a platform full of recognition. It has become as much a part of my entrepreneurship as Wood &amp; Cricket.     <\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3>EDO Match &#8211; Chris&#8217; company<\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Chris built his company EDO Match, which connects employers and job seekers. It started in Togo, but is now expanding across multiple countries. He is doing this together with 2 friends of ours, one living in Bali and the other in the Netherlands. How fun is this!   <\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/workingremotely.nl\/en\/ebook-find-your-remote-job\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-9251\" src=\"https:\/\/workingremotely.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/E-book-1-9-300x100.jpg\" alt=\"banner ebook on remote working\" width=\"500\" height=\"167\" srcset=\"https:\/\/workingremotely.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/E-book-1-9-300x100.jpg 300w, https:\/\/workingremotely.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/E-book-1-9-1024x341.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/workingremotely.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/E-book-1-9-768x256.jpg 768w, https:\/\/workingremotely.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/E-book-1-9.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h2><b>Why we returned to the Netherlands after all<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Togo taught me to work in a totally different way: less perfection, more doing. Less planning, more creating. Less pressure, more intuition. I discovered there that I was an entrepreneur, when I had never thought that of myself.   <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After three wonderful years, my heart suddenly said, &#8220;It&#8217;s time.&#8221; Not because Togo wasn&#8217;t good. On the contrary, we had a fantastic time. But Emma was getting difficulty with her Dutch, important decisions about our home had to be made, and our businesses needed a different base. And honestly? I missed the seasons. Lighting candles, feeling the cold, lying under a blanket haha.        <\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-11867\" src=\"https:\/\/workingremotely.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/5-300x233.jpg\" alt=\"Mignon with her children on the beach in Togo\" width=\"400\" height=\"311\" srcset=\"https:\/\/workingremotely.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/5-300x233.jpg 300w, https:\/\/workingremotely.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/5-768x597.jpg 768w, https:\/\/workingremotely.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/5.jpg 900w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/> <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-11866\" src=\"https:\/\/workingremotely.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/4-300x233.jpg\" alt=\"african market with bags\" width=\"400\" height=\"311\" srcset=\"https:\/\/workingremotely.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/4-300x233.jpg 300w, https:\/\/workingremotely.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/4-768x597.jpg 768w, https:\/\/workingremotely.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/4.jpg 900w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><b>Remigrating: practically easy, emotionally complicated<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We now live back in Alphen aan den Rijn, while Chris commutes back and forth. It&#8217;s chaotic, but we do it. Just to connect those two worlds and not give up on our entrepreneurship.  <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Administratively, remigrating is simple. But emotionally &#8230; no one tells you that. You come back as a new version of yourself, in an environment that hasn&#8217;t changed. Your head is still in two continents. Your rhythm you have to rebuild. The children also had to land. Emma missed her friends in Togo tremendously at school.      <\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>What emigrating has brought me<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">More than I ever expected: guts, creativity, flexibility, entrepreneurship, confidence, calmness, relatability and a community that grows every day. Togo and the Netherlands have reshaped me. Everything I do now was born in those three years: Wood &amp; Cricket, Dutchies Emigrate, communities for emigrating and remigrating, webinars, blogs, podcasts and remote working.    <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Our businesses continue to move between two countries. Our children carry two origins. And we live right on the bridge between those two worlds.    <\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Follow?<br \/>\n<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Instagram: <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/dutchies_emigreren\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">@dutchies_emigrate<\/a> &amp; <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/woodandcricket_dutchie_abroad\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">@woodandcricket_dutchie_abroad<\/a><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Shop: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/woodandcricket.com\/nl\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">www.woodandcricket.com<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2>Learn more about emigrating and working remotely?<\/h2>\n<p>Working Remotely and Dutchies Emigrate join forces for a practical and honest <a href=\"https:\/\/workingremotely.nl\/en\/webinar\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">webinar about living and working abroad<\/a>. It will take place on Wednesday, Jan. 14, 2026, and you can register for it for free. We share our personal experiences, tell you what&#8217;s really involved behind the scenes and show you what steps you can take to make it happen yourself. Can&#8217;t make it live? 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